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Saturday evening I was having dinner at a friend's house.
6 adults and 5 children (3 were mine) that were confusing, all playing together.
course, between me and the other two mothers have left comments on the children ... sleeping, eating, education ....
I generally I avoid give advice to other moms because I do not want me just because I consider that to be presumptuous, as children, I have 3 .... Saturday
And I really struggled to keep his mouth shut, but I am convinced I did the right thing. Me and this other mother have 2 different characters.
I worry rarely address issues as they are finding the solution on its own or at least discussing it with my husband ... anyway, stirring, for me, is not home.
M., however, is agitated, wants certainty 1000, wants to know, wants to have everything under control and always, is anxiety-made person.
His daughter, whose name is like mine, is 11 months.
you, Mom, it's really desperate because aldifuori can not do anything to cook for her daughter. Yes, because at 11 months eats pureed stuff because he has not yet tried to give her solid stuff, not even a piece of bread, because the pediatrician and he's not yet said
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not ever be the jelly heated because the pediatrician told her not to do so
"but as you do with three?" I asked?
And I answered, "but excuse me, but the stuff you heated the day before did not you ever eat?" "Yeah, right ... so why not do so well with your daughter? If you're not evil, not nothing will happen even to you ...
"but from what you have snack? to me because the pediatrician said to give him plain yogurt and I blend the fruit on it, but the child does not eat!"
"but you - I said - you've tasted? E 'abominable enough yougrt the white, acid is" yes. I said, it is not at all good "
What have I said? "But if you can not even eat you, how do you expect her to do it? I advice you will not do, because everyone does as he wishes, but if you believe in me let it be what you say to your pediatrician and follow the Your instinct "....
"ah, so I can give you seconds to drink water 'cause my pediatrician says ....
I found this discussion quite absurd .... ok, there are pediatricians who are supposed to simply give you a general guidance, but there are also the maternal instinct, common sense and practical sense. If you
sembraassurdo that your pediatrician has told you not to give water to your children, because the jelly has everything that you need ... Give it some water anyway ... what do you want to succeed in this little creature? Absolutely nothing
If it seems absurd that he has not eaten bread, and who is not intrigued by solid foods, try to offer bread or rice .... crekers not hurt him for sure. But it's so
diffile? I wonder ....
I have focused instead on more ...
addition to my three children, were M. of just 11 months, and R. 16 months .... well, leaving R and hail to make comparisons, but between M and my Sam is an abyss.
M. is 10,000 light years ahead .... and do not know how much it hurts to admit this. Crawling, standing up, it has fluid movements, is sure if ...
instead .... Sam is funny, she is still walking on my ass, so not really walking but moves from his seat. It 'more rigid, it is not fluid, is clumsy.
I do not care if he is able to eat a piece of pizza or a pasta dish, where the bieron of milk for breakfast if you eat alone, or if you already say 7 / 8 words ... I I just do not walk, that's not really able to rise up .... and I'm worried!
I know that every child has its time and bla bla bla, but I have so many .... but the head, really.

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The arrival of Enri

The 04/07 was to be born, and the 7.4 was born.

the same day of his grandfather ... at the end of midnight in the dark of night, in the dim lights of the delivery room, asleep in the silence of the corridors.

07.04.2008, h 23.50 - Friday - his blue eyes and my parents met for the first time.

was already a little star Enrique, but he (or us) they were aware of.

That evening, the night of 04/07 was organized a concert, to which both my brothers, my sister and my dad would have been an active part as members of the band.

Then, for some days, I kept repeating to my tummy please, do not make jokes, if you really want to be born that is at least 04/07 in the morning or early afternoon to the max. " The logistics cycle times by my parents for the "withdrawal" of Mile that day, just for the preparations and all the rest were a bit limited ....

And instead, the little brat has started to be felt at 16.00 pm. Small contraction, which for a normal person would have meant nothing, but since the previous birth of Mile would have meant so much to me.

few contractions, spaced out a lot together, but very painful.

At 1800 my husband called me from work saying he would be late ... ok, I told him .... but not tardardare too, you know I'm not too fit.

He did not understand .... and I'm not down in details.

When it soon becomes clear that something is wrong, we order pizza and start a pull-and-pull between us, "we go to the hospital," he says "no, but you say" I say "call the grandparent who are taking Milena "repeats" but no, come on, wait a little longer. "

Then go to the bathroom, begin to be some small loss of blood ... ok maybe we really ... too bad that they now 20:00 ... I wonder if the grandparents are still at home.

Phones, and my father's usual late is still there. And takes the car comes to pick Mile, all happy to spend the night outside.

...." Then come on, De, go to the hospital "-" no, I'm not coming, I'm afraid, you go alone I'll wait here "

" come on, do not be silly, come before it's too late, and then what you want it, you've already done once "-" is precisely here, I do not want me cuciano again. I'm not going! "

I was practically brought to the machine arm, and me I threw a tantrum like a child. Do not ask what happened to me, but I was really frightened. I did not want to give birth!

arrived at the hospital, I do the layout - are about 21.00 - and repeated the same phrases as last time "does not seem in a labor the contractions are few and read" ... I explain the previous round and midwife then become, by that time "under special surveillance." do not leave me in peace even a minute. I

pelvic examination, this time I can. There is a doctor, that Fabrizio really nice. Young, blond, with green eyes ... almost puts me in awe. I visit, and I said "Madam, I have to say it to him this, because if no one believes the story, she's already 5 cm ... but these contractions with her .... is made to have children! "

I assign the room, the same room and same bed where I had Mile.

's almost 22 .... say to my husband who can go home because it could take all night "knows, is only half way", but of course my husband is with me.

walk the halls silent, we hold hands .....

At about the 23 stetrica tells me go to delivery room .... full expansion. The origin pretty frequently tell me to tell me that is a joke, it is impossible ... it is surely a joke ... about to give birth and is as quiet as if he were to go for the expenditure "in the labor room

Vado, begin the push ... but I block. scream that I will not give birth, I'm afraid of the points that I will later, and I want to go home, promising to return them the next day.

make me go into the delivery room, things are complicated. I can hold the contractions which are now completely gone. They try to tell me that the baby is likely to suffer ... but I say I do not give a damn.

At some point the origin beautiful, it's always him, I climb the bulging, and Henry was born. Just like that .. in a moment .... and are
23:50
I sew, of course, and I cry because of the many things that the midwife was there that I had sworn that I would not sew. But this time ... no pain, no

anything I relax, but I cry, knowing that he had said horrible things that reassure me .... but I definitely think ...." is normal, do not worry. The second part is always harder than the first , and then you Sforni them so fast that you do not even have time to digest it "

cell phone rang ... my husband had forgotten to turn it off .... me ask if that was the grandfather Enrique was already born.

And so he is becoming famous.

famous because my dad came late to the concert, and the master, at the microphone said "the announcement that Mr. E. arrived late because her daughter is in hospital to give birth to the baby Enri" ... the country is small, I know all. E 'party and a big round of applause was given a piece.

And then, after the concert .... all in a pizzeria and when it was announced that indeed was already born, has been made a toast that has conivolto all.

E 'famous little Enrique, because even now when they see me they say "ah, he was born the night of the concert ... I remember it very well."

Now the baby has two years and a half ... is sensitive, but judicious daring, romantic but obnoxious, sweet but also rebellious.

has 2 big green eyes that attract attezione all of which make me to be terribly jealous.

Henry is .... Henry!

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What has happened to me:

What has happened to me:
The person I loved most of my life and more than anyone else I loved before *, after a fight about something stupid but I had done much to exacerbate say, 'Okay, let us "but only to scare him, has seen fit to take the ball and finally tell me what he thought for a long time: that does not love me, that I have never loved even" trying " and there's never done with any of them, who can not see me as nothing more than a friend and who, let's the right thing to do.
When I told him (after quarrel) did not want to be with him, though, I had asked her to try again, that they were still together, I made the mistake of not immediately say yes and make peace on the day and he after he had made his decision. That is not to see me again.
To which I would disappear and you will not find my medicine because I was with him while I was using did not and now I do not know where the hell I put them.
I might have to take everything a bit 'more.
He was perfect, had the perfect friends, we were all beautiful things, was handsome, I wanted to read books, if only I had spent more time, you could see he did not love me, but every now and then he said to me, is to be noted that only a few times he said it first, I remember so well the time we back from the Blank Dogs, his "I love you" were almost always only one answer, but these things do not want to see, that is, I told him, I asked him but do not you like but do not love me but you do not like to see me and he said but not what you say. Then the bad things
guy who does not love me and who does not want to be with me and he happened to come to me with no desire to see me so he gave me the phone. "Because if you cry and I'll see you after I return with you and does not go well, then soon return to where we are now. "Then I broke his balls for two days and finally came to Forlì, we talked for Thias of the stairs, I was dead, his heart, he told me the same things without even closer, then I He hugged me after I prayed for half an hour, then I looked at the chest from the neck of the shirt.
then did not give me a kiss.
I told him I loved him so much. Truly I tell him every day for almost six months. It does not matter.
Yesterday I asked how it was possible that he missed and he told me I never said, I miss you, yes, but not in that way. But how? Okay I know how. But how?
What gear did not work for which he is now the most important thing the world to me and I did not absolutely necessary? Yet
've got friends, beautiful things happen to me ... but because they saw what we could become if only he had taken from his head the idea of \u200b\u200bdistressing relationship between two people of different sexes who?
says that in reality no one has ever loved, just me, and then could not fool myself as he had done with them all. No

but oh well fuck you.


* I know that there is little love and love so much, says Benigni, no one is dead or just dead time. But it was to show that I've never been so taken by anyone.

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Sunday Bestial

Although Sam did Friday and then the vaccine is really bad, always the little
despite their poor little sleep since Friday, he complains a lot, is picky, boring, and a whole host of other cute little adjectives,
here. .. despite all of this yesterday was really a brutal Sunday.
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carnival is sacred to me, I love it and I take care in every detail.
I like to participate, I like to have fun, I also like that if you shove the confetti everywhere ... I also like to clean up after.
I do not mind the chaos, confusion, noise .... It 'CARNIVAL.
And so yesterday I took the kids cernevale the children in my hometown, where I know all moms, dads, grandparents, dogs and goldfish. I was already in
fibrillation by day, with clothes hanging in the closet, streamers and confetti bought quite a while and waiting to be spread everywhere.
A little torn in my desire for perfection and instead to follow the wishes of the children ... of course they had won. And so ...
Mile in her fuchsia dress by barbie ... but no crown or circles in my head because they do not stand in his
Enri Tutone ... but without a lion's head because it gives him trouble, and without the tail because otherwise the other kids pulled gliel'avrebbero
and dressed as a bunny for Sam, was immaculate in the closet because the natural good sense has prevailed on every instinct they have, and he was at home with his grandmother.
I played, pulled confetti, threw confetti and threw confetti.
I chatted, finally, with a lot of moms and dads, I threw confetti, and continued to throw confetti.
got home .... we had confetti scattered everywhere, even inside the diaper Enrique, Mile was as if he had a shirt more.
But we had a great time ... and today, asylum, is the first thing that Miles told his teacher.
AH, how I love the carnival .... I can not wait to be next Sunday !!!!!!

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HOME OWNERS!

And yes, finally, after 4 years of research are officially homeowners.
4 years where we viewed homes, apartments, farmhouses to renovate
4 years where we have even thought of being able to build our love nest according to our personal tastes completely starting from 0
And now it's done! It does not seem real. From Tuesday, 15/02
I too am part of the "rich" owners .... so that is tempting, but .... a famous advertising saying "there is always something behind" ... and my "something behind "are 20 mutual !!!!!!!
But we will succeed in spite of my salary now halved from part.time. Because this loan was the result of a careful selection, studied in detail .... and then ... change what I think you have a mortgage on his shoulders, instead of a holiday as it was in the last 7 years?
Basically I do not change anything, just the word "mortgage" that is scary ..
... Well before the move will go a few more months.
few months to get the best, especially to explain to Mile that has to get used to the idea.
She saw her home, she likes ... but of course does not see it as his own.
do not know what I'd give to be where I am now. I like it, I love this little house, although a few are 80 square meters. Are not enough for us that we are in 5, where the children sleep in the living room, where there is a cellar to be exploited. But it is a beautiful house, in the main street, full of comfort for me .... for a mother often alone with three children and then have to organize on outings, walks in, the daily shopping. And then a beautiful playground, not too far from home.
move I'm sorry too, but the logistics needs it.
I am large, I understand and I adjusted.
The problem will be children. Mile categorically refuses even the idea when he hears talk about the new house goes on the rampage ...
but that's another story, an important story that deserves a separate post.
soon as I have time I will speak of this too.

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(M + F)

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Valentine's face ....

In theory, this day should come out from my eyes so many hearts in love and many stars .... And instead
leave only arrows, sharp and full of beautiful electricity.
And by the way, I also somehow doubt that today is Monday 14 and Friday 17.
It's only 8:55 and that's what happened to me when, just two hours ago has sounded the alarm right.

-) I dressed Mile after breakfast, but while she was dressing Enrique has seen fit to take even a biscuit tea was spilling all over him (he had even coat / scarf / hat)

-) I've changed a fight with because she did not want his pants remained clean in the closet and discovered that even his socks were soaked tea

-) time to exit His voice came out this phrase, "Mama, but the jacket is wet" ... so I went looking for a jacket integrates

-) time to go out, I sadly realized that my house keys and the machine remained in the jacket of my husband ... too bad that he works 30 km away ...

-) I try the spare keys, and when I go I can not leave the door because a car that was entering the court rejected it with one that was coming out

-) now I am late .... I can not bring Mile kindergarten and I'll ask my mom, just that today is Monday and must also make the bed

-) at 8:20 am there is a deadly traffic, I take the short cut that goes directly from my parents' house on the highway but there's still a jeep driver who is happily chatting with a passerby. I have taken for crazy, but I lowered the window and I yelled

-) arrived in the office (late) my owner tells me that tomorrow will not accompany me to a conference in Turin and I have to go alone (which I though I drove up in Croatia without problems, we do not know To turn ....)

-) snow is expected tomorrow

it enough ????????? NO because tomorrow I should also do the deed by the notary ......
I'm afraid, because tomorrow before it gets there are still 15 hours ....
assure you that all I wrote what really happened to me this morning, although it may seem absurd.

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get home on Saturday night and remain car in the garden to listen to and watch the trees for Black illusion of being back a little 'later. E' Forlì.

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Policemen in plain clothes.

My brother Charles is the babluziente otherwise.
upside-ooo.
My brother Charles wants to be great to be a policeman. We all hope it's just a phase. Saturday
My dad gave him a toy car. White convertible, Tamarra enough to fascinate a child.
Charles would have wanted the police, complained a bit '. To me that I went to the shower.
After a bit 'goes into the bathroom with the little car and says, Ina-aa, Dad gave me this little car that the police are-eee-ooo when you dress up to go places not to be recognized eee!
Big Daddy.

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home sweet home (2)

Once it was home sweet home .... now it's getting "stress that this house".
It 's been a long time since I had talked about the house, or better accommodation we decided to buy .... 2 months have already flown.
Well, things are going on and 15/02...tra 11 days, in theory we would act for the appointment by the notary.
girls ... But I really start to doubt, not so much for the accommodation itself but for all that the bureaucracy demands.
So ... the apartment. The apartment is really beautiful. A beautiful spacious living room, from which we can see the kitchen, Living and angled, separated from the living room with a big bow. The living room leads to a bedroom (which we now used as a games room), kitchen, or open a bullfight. From the hallway you can access the other 2 bedrooms, 2 baths, or to the closet.
The closet is not huge, but the square which makes it spacious. We put a washing machine and dryer, and will fill the shelves for detergents and so on.
The 2 bathrooms, blind, have just been renovated. One service, beautiful, with antique pink tiles, no shower nor bath. What struck me is that they have "covered" the whole tank instead of tiles, thus obtaining, with 4 doors instead of the wood for asiugamani. Inside there is a washbasin with a large mirror that covers the entire wall. The second bathroom ... do not really remember what color it is, has a shower. Call shower is a bit limited, since it is a brand new shower / sauna (with built-in alarm bell in case of illness) that we have no intention of changing.
new tiles, new health, new windows ... I have absolutely nothing to do but give the white .... but in the living room, where I will put the piano, there is a beautiful Venetian stucco wall but cover because I do not like the color.
We left very happy, the owners have a clear need sell and then sell it at a very competitive price.
It is the compromise and just happened ... things change.
It turns out that there is an agreement with the town ... and it goes well, the thing is resolved.
But then he discovers that there is also a right to build the new owners have not redeemed. We talk, we discuss the price falls further ...
But then, without going into detail, there are other little things bureaucratic, which does not involve some kind of trouble, but I do run between the bank / engineer / owner / geometri...e it, and then retracts ...
.... I'm tired of discussing this is it!

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I want a man who sees the little things. I want my man sees the little things. The little things are such what he sees of Anna Gatti Anna. I want a man I want my men say things like those who know her say.
"And there was this customer today, about thirty, which makes me:-My car is located in Via Melette.

-Via what?

-Via Melette like tiny apples.

and died of tenderness. "

And I see that the little things in people and then think about the night, or just to see the little things in me and that we think of time as I think quand'ha days of morning afternoon evening night as move his knees when he has to move in a narrow space and how to open up a bit 'his lips when he concentrated.

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a blast from the past mistake of

few days ago, Mile is in the kitchen with a videotape that bear no label and asked me what was recorded inside.
do not know, I said, but let's put it into the VCR and see what's there.
Girls .... my mom that shot.
was a videotape that portrayed me, about 10 years ago, in a performance with the majorettes.
I was part of the majorettes for about 16 years .... since I was 7-8 years up to 24 I got married ... it was my passion. And I remember that, once stopped, I did not even go to concerts to see them pull out because I was in tears.
And I became too good ... in fact, it had become the whole group. When running the stick in the air and take it back after a ride on ourselves ... we we run together, it was a really fun one.
Here in Piedmont, Italy as in all the groups of majorettes are very few, so much so that in 2001 we went to "travel" in Sardinia, Guspini, to the parade starting at para-Olympics. We were treated like stars ... we looked like we were celebrities that .... laugh !!!!! We marched in the cold ....
participating from January to March in all the carnivals of the surroundings by engaging every Sunday afternoon and some evening ... well it happened and to change the province. Well ... we were
Bravin, all large, motivated .... it was a time stupedo.
I, thanks to my good knowledge of music, I always looked into this. Once you have chosen the base studied, dividing it into parts, marking the changes of time, remembering the jingles ... and according to all these data we sat down to study the various steps, movements and combinations of movements.
last time I was even become a "substitute for the captain," and then there I was .... the first row (that I being the highest in the group was always the last one) with the whistle in his mouth to "control" everything the group.
I had so much fun, I had a lot of satisfaction .... Cabbage
many memories lately ... I can not think of anything else .... I see and I see more with the bat in hand, the white skirt and red jacket .... and down on his hat.
There they were,,, again, tears in her eyes.